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Originally Posted by divine1966
Probably off topic but when people start drinking to this extend they don't have hangovers, so it is harder to feel any remorse the next day. I lived with alcoholic. He Never ever was hangover. At times when it got very bad right before quitting (then always relapsing) he would drink as much as 750ml of vodka a night and still never had hangover. Not kidding.
That is one of the reasons the amount of alcohol they consume increases as not only they need more to get drunk they also do not feel sick the next day, they just need more and more
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Okay so I'm not physically addicted to alcohol. I have no physical urges to drink. Yes, I get hungover sometimes, not every time.
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Originally Posted by divine1966
Just because you have fantasies or see things in porn and it turns you on, it doesn't mean you are "in to". Some things are just fantasies and our bodies respond to them. Just because you are turned on, it doesn't mean much. When I saw threesome in porn I sure got turned on, but never in a million years I would I want or imagine any woman on this planet to come near man I love.
Getting turned on by stuff is a bodily reaction and often had nothing to do with reality. You are only 21, focus on other stuff in life
Ps the fact that you want to be dehumanized and mistreated by sexual partners and you never even had sex yet would need to be looked at professionally. But everyone else already said that many times
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Yes there is a difference between being turned on by stuff in porn and having sex in real life. I am well aware of that. I have a hard time believing that I can enjoy watching what I do and wouldn't enjoy at least parts of it in real life. Unless it was too triggering. I have no intentions of actually trying that stuff out without being in a serious, trusting relationship.
There is a difference between wanting to be "mistreated" and BDSM. And even if they were the same thing, I think it's pretty clear if why that might be if you look at my past for 5 seconds.
Yeah I know I haven't responded to other people yet. I'm trying to think of something to say.