Quote:
Originally Posted by insertname
Hmmm...I'm like that...and I tend to find that it plays out in reality (I don't really like anyone and when I meet someone I tend to focus on their flaws). I think it's probably got something to do with protecting yourself from vulnerability. I don't enjoy the feeling of liking someone as I have a big fear of dependence.
|
Yeah same. I usually like people who I know are way out of my league and could never get, or if some poor sucker ever does like me, I just think no way and won't even give them a chance. I always have someone to obsess over but just as a fantasy. No one would put up with me anyway so why bother even trying? I don't want to ever rely on anyone else again either, I'm too used to being alone and I'd only end up getting hurt anyway. At least my rockstar "husband" can't dump me for someone else.