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Originally Posted by BLUEDOVE
You're looking for praise/approval/etc.,OUTSIDE
yourself,you need to feel good about yourself,and to
do that you need some self-esteem---note it is called
SELF-esteem,not OTHER-esteem.It has to come
from the inside. Please invest in dear self,and get
some books on self-esteem,by the acknowledged
master on subject,Nathaniel Branden. I highly
recommend "Honoring The Self," and "The Six
Pillars Of Self-Esteem". Trust me,when you feel
better about self,the anger will lessen,maybe not
completely,but a lot better than now.
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This honestly hurt to read the first time I read it, I didn't quite know how to respond... Maybe you're right. In the reality of things I'm a very independent person and I do take a lot of my own time and invest it into myself. I even go to the gym regularly and spend my free time doing things I enjoy. I just severely hate losing I guess.