Oh, the fence. Now i know what you mean. Im pretty oblivious to the fence, which is probably why salesclerks call me sir all the freakin time. My mother and brother are very aware of the fence. But i will wear like a blouse, a blazer, and khakis, all womens clothes btw, and my mother will ask me, why do i have to dress like a man all the time? Slap. I was going for elegant and sophisticated, really not even butch.

These are the bodies and minds god gave us. In twenty years, this will be the new normal. It already is a lot more normal than 50 years ago. We are frontrunners. Everybody else can catch up or go hang.