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I think it is rare for therapists and psychiatrists to apologize. Apologies should be done as soon as possible to minimize harm.
My present therapist knew me back when I was misdiagnosed. She never diagnosed me with that disorder. When I started seeing her again about 13 years later she shared her feelings. I learned about what happened and how frustrated and hopeless she felt. She explained why she ignored her intuition, couldn't make sense of my presentation and wandered why she couldn't reach me long after we parted ways.
I don't expect an apology for what happened because she wasn't the one that misdiagnosed me even though she contributed to some of my suffering by misinterpreting my situation. We talked about it which has helped me heal. I know she feels bad about what happened. It is evident in her behavior and what she says.
Honesty and the willingness to listen without judgement can replace an apology.
She apologies for little things such as cancelling appointments and even explains why, which I appreciate. I like to know what is going on.
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Dx: Didgee Disorder
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