Thanks all, for the great replies. Ironically, my T emailed me late last night and 'sounded' like her usual self. So that makes me feel better.

T is the most helpful T I've had to date so I do not want to severe ties with her. But, you all have made me realize I do need to address the personal disclosure and boundaries with her, which will be a difficult task. I have known I've needed to do this for a while, but it helps to hear it from others.

Thank you again.