Whew, this is a tough one for sure.

The relationship needs a LOT of work but it's a long-distance relationship where work needed can't be done. Then with a relationship in crisis, miles add to upset and distrust, leaving alot of availability to act out in the crisis...causing more distrust.

If the relationship has a chance, even if the business has broken even at this point, or wouldn't have a huge loss of start-up funds, I'd attempt to work on the sale now.

Some things are worth the money...some not. I guess that's maybe what you guys need to look at at this point.

Is there a way you can visit without children to do some hard talking? Know what you're going to say before you say it, and I wouldn't do it over the phone.

I would talk about the relationship prior, and make clear distinctions to where it's gone and ask if he, like you, wants it back. If so, try to give solutions to rectify that...like selling out now or take time with him on the visit to think of other solutions?

I would not "settle" with things they way they are now. It sounds like you're doing alot of settling and only you can decide whether or not you're willing to do that.

I wish you luck and please keep us informed.

KD