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With regard to the specifics of your post, yes I've had similar experiences with therapists. I no longer see one because I have never been able to find one I thought was worth the bother, let alone the cost. On the other hand, some people say their T's have saved their lives. So I guess everyone's experience can be different. Might you be able to talk with your T about how you're feeling? The other alternative may be that you just have not found the right one for you yet. One thing I would suggest is that if your T is making you feel stupid, this is not a therapeutic relationship. Here on PC, we do have a forum on psychotherapy. This may be of interest to you:

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