Sigh..I have to admit that you are right. In my experience, this desperate need to be loved, held, accepted unconditionally by someone, who comes into our life as a helper, never gets resolved with this person..So, you are right, this might and, most likely, will happen with the new therapist and then the next therapist and so on..

I had been going through similar experience until I finally realized that traditional therapy, the way it is done, is not the solution for this. I looked into other methods that aimed at strengthening my spiritual core, and I did make it stronger. Right now, I am not looking for love and acceptance in others. I've learned how to accept and love myself so I don't need to look for that externally. I do look for connections with others, but for a different purpose - to experience myself fully as a human being...

I can tell you more about how I solved this problem for myself if you are interested, but I'd prefer to talk about it privately. PM me if you want to.