So first of all I'm not sure this is the proper thread for this but here goes.

So I have no effing idea where my sexuality lies. I (Male) am attracted to women but every now and then I find myself attracted to certain types of males (mostly effeminate ones). Not at differing times, but sometimes I think it'd be nice to have both another man and a woman in the same room and we all just go at it. However I face a huge fear of societal rejection if people were to think I liked men along with women. I know for certain I'd probably be an outcast to some, and while there are groups of people that feel the same way, I just....... I dunno, I want to be happy being myself, but in this society it is primarilty frowned upon (even though the LGBT...community has made huge progress in the face of haters). I have never had the chance to explore since I feel a but paranoid someone will find out. And I'm not sure that this classifies as bisexual or something, so once again......I dunno

I'm not trying to sound ashamed, I just have no idea what to do at all.