Hi, Springstar, Hun!
I'm going to say some things you may not like hearing...
This man sounds like a child in a man's body. Even if you should manage to sell this business, will you be happy when he starts going out for "pool and beers" while living with you. You've related that he had already done this in his previous marriage, leaving wife and children at home alone.
The other thing which occurs to me as I read your last postings: You are a little encouraged by his calling you throughout the evening while out for pool and beers, even when he got home. I guess that was a bit of a comfort to you, and I can certainly empathize with your confusion. But...when we are entangled with someone, our thoughts are truly conflicted. If you love this man, you want to believe!!! I am going to say here, though, that he is not behaving lovingly toward you. Now...you are wondering if he has plans for a concert, and then he tells you that you needn't come to him this weekend. This kind of thing produces anxiety, lack of trust, and emotional pain for you.

Is this guy worth it?!!!
Love,
Patty