I spend my time (I am on disability) helping others; via online or as a peer couselor where I live (public housing) I listen & listen & no one ever asks me.."How are YOU doing?" I guess it's part of my job, but I have gotten so frustrated and overwhelmed with giving & giving --- but I haven't seen my T in over a month. I keep getting anxious & I call & cancel at the last minute everytime (I am supposed to see him every 2 weeks). I cannot get over my feeling like I don't want to go in there and cry for an hour about what's on my plate right now. All I can think is that he's just listening to me b/c he gets paid to.
Mind you, I've had this T for about 10 years now. I know he cares but whenever I present a problem of MINE, he always responds with "What would you tell one of your clients?"
My plea? How would anyone else respond to this saga?