It does bother me that he is closer to his mom than me.. he doesn't take me out, never pays for anything of mine (although I pay for him), and I don't have my own place but my parents give us privacy.. he hates coming to my house and is a homebody. I've tried to make plans for moving in together but he's not ready... It's like his life is on hold because of his lonely needy mother.. she is well off finacially and isnt sick or anything.. I just feel bad for my boyfriend because his life could.be so much more.beautiful if he just moved away from her and her negative self but she is all he has ever known, literally..