I'm 99% sure now that my DBT group isn't teaching me DBT. I started reading the workbook and my group doesn't discuss any of it. The worksheets aren't the same nor is the homework!

I know I need to stay either way even if it's to get me out of the house...

But I think someone should be notified. I think I should tell the T who is going to be one of the new facilitators. I have a great rapport with her. But I don't want to ruin the relationship.

Should I just keep quiet? Should I bring this up with the T? Do I dare go to the director?

This isn't right that they're calling it DBT and it's not. 3 weeks to go through a module that is already difficult to fit into 8 weeks? No diary cards, no structure, horrible examples, wrong worksheets, wrong homework, etc.

For those who have seen my posts, I can be pretty outspoken concerning topics I feel strongly about. This is one of them.

My T wants me to add to the group, but honestly I feel like I shouldn't have to correct the facilitators or take on a more active role. I feel like I will only challenge the facilitators and make them mad.

But it's not fair to me or the other members. Or maybe it's working for the other members? But it's not fair for me. I want to learn DBT and I want it to be structured like it's supposed to be...even if they condense the material.

What would you do?