thanks for the replies about my T. she has called me back when I have called her but has never called me out of the blue. her office deals with her appointments.it threw me. I didn't know who she was at first . I should think it is nice that she was worries about me but I am use to a bit stricter boundaries from her . Im one of those people who do well with stricter boundaries. get a bit freaked out when I see them go away . but I am glad I have a T who does care .not so sure I would want her calling me if I was not showing up because I was having problems though