I am not you, but I'd feel pissed off and angry from your T's reaction.

A good therapist can tell you a difficult truth you need to see without being judgemental.

What also brings a red flag to me is your T being judgmental.
1) Many well-adjusted adult children talk to their parents every day, or every other day. If it works for both parties involved, it's none of T's business
2) T is here to give you psychological care, not to preside your trial !
3) T is paid to give you a service, not the other way round. If he has issues to the point of being judgemental with patients, I'm afraid he needs therapy for himself for his issues or hunting for a more suitable job !