I appreciate your comment and that you share your story. I of course feel for you. What did you get out of therapy on this matter? Have the T tried to get you to seek contacts with men or so? I personally think a possible way to "solve" this problem is to dare to seek contacts, to go on dates and just try it.
Then, I´m not there myself but unfortunately this thing can´t be solved within the therapy room and therefore it´s also much harder to really come to a solution to the problem. I mean, talking about a difficult childhood, being able to cry about stuff, to be angry and so on, all that you can deal with in the therapy room.
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Originally Posted by bounceback
You are not alone. I haven't been with anyone either and I am a lot older than you. I always thought I would get married and have 8 kids but due to circumstances that didn't happen. A lot of mine has to do with fear of intimacy, self esteem, sexual abuse, etc. I have been in therapy for years working on this and really don't know how to fix this. Just wanted to let you know you aren't alone.
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