Since you tend to be a judgemental person based on assumptions you make about people, at least as it relates to evaluating potential Ts, perhaps you feel that a T will judge you based on the fact that your personal life is different from the Ts. I hope you will be pleasantly surprised that your T doesn't judge you and will help you be more accepting of your own present personal life. What our lives are today does not have to be how they are in the future if you want it to be different.