I have a second thought to my first thread made about My Sexless Marriage ...... now I am thinking:

What is a spouse to do when the other one no longer wants to have sex and you are still wanting and desiring to express your self in a sensual way, to experience the pleasure that comes from being with another?

Are we sit quite and suffer in silence?
Are we to wait until the other is ready?
Are we allowed to find another to help us?

What are you we allowed to do when the other part of US fails on their part?