When I hated myself for not being enough to others I read so many articles and did so many programs that came up with few tips what actually to do. They all say "love yourself first" , but I didn't know how to do it, but later I discovered the ways and wrote them down. Few discoveries - write it down all your accomplishments, even finishing elementary school. Then ask the people in your life did you made a difference in their lives, is there something about you they love. You will be surprised how cherished your truly are. It opened my eyes just doing that. And when I felt down, I used to read the answers that my friends told me. If you want to read more tips go to Love yourself so you can love others!