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Old Feb 12, 2015, 01:59 PM
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There's this guy at work who won't leave me alone. I had been interested in him until I found out that he's married, but he won't leave me alone now and I'm scared to say anything because I was the one initially hitting on him. He makes vulgar remarks now and keeps bothering me to have sex with him in the office when no one is there. It's gotten to the point that when I know I'm alone, I lock my office door and turn up a video on YouTube really loud to make it seem like I'm web-conferencing. And if I have an excuse to get out and go out to eat (if I'm not broke), then I will. It's my own fault for hitting on him, but he wears no wedding ring, and I found out through a coworker that he is married when I heard him talking about the guy's wife and kids. I talked to my supervisor about it, and he said not to do anything because I was the one who started it, and since he's the cousin of our program's director, they likely wouldn't do anything, but it could be bad for my job. I also found out that the guy is a registered sex offender from another coworker, so I went online to see if it was true, and it is, he is listed. What should I do? This is pretty much my fault. But I don't know how to undo it.
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