Welcome to Psych Central Calgaryguy! I am so sorry that you are in such a bad place right now but I can understand why. Being Bipolar is very, very difficult and so is being married to someone who is bipolar. If your wife is not on medication then you should try to get her to go to the doctor so that she can get something to help her. You might also want to try to get her into therapy. You should post this in the forum for Bipolar. There are others there who can understand and give you tips on how to help your wife and yourself.