My therapy was a disaster for my marriage for quite a while there. As I became stronger and healthier, it was no longer okay that my H had to always be right, argued with me about everything when I resisted that, and how he thought and said everything was my fault. We were right on the edge of divorce, and I had already told him I wanted a divorce when he finally agreed to try marriage counseling. The good news is that marriage counseling was a huge success for us. He learned to take more responsibility, to listen and to discuss things more constructively. I am happier in our relationship than I have ever been.

So, that is my bad news/good news experience.