Thanks for the help and support everyone. I totally agree with the music thing - when I've got a few hours to devote to cleaning up, I'll usually put on some cheesy music from the 90's that makes me nostalgic and makes the task easier (like Spice Girls or Ace of Base.) Silly, I know, but it does make the job easier.

I did see that SNAP CLUB thing a week or so ago on the forums, and it sounds like a good idea. I've been trying to incorporate it into my life, but so far I'm just getting started.

Hopefully I can create a calendar or weekly list of 'stuff to do' and try to divvy up tasks with my husband so the workload is spread a bit more evenly.

I'm going to check out the books and websites recommended when I have a bit more free time.

Thanks again!