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Originally Posted by angelene
Looking back I've had opportunities but didn't take them because in those situations I had just met the guys and, not to be cliche, but I would like it to be with someone special.
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I feel like this too. I'm also not attracted to a large amount of guys.
Being a virgin has been part of my identity for so long it is kinda scary for me to think how I would view myself without it.... that probably sounds crazy.
And I'm also afraid that if I lost it for the sole purpose of losing it, I would then find a man that would have been worth the wait but me sleeping around would end up being a deal breaker for him. What is that; magical thinking, superstition or lingering puritanism.
