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Well who'd funk that simple statement would have such an effect. I've struggled and struggled with this sentence from T last week just before the break and its leading me to really learn that others have needs, that there isn't just me in this world, and that as hard as I try to find a way to not trust T because of this parting statement, I can't.

It seems part of me very comfortable in not trusting. I dont have to be a real part of the relationship. I can hide behind my wall. But I keep battling T in my head and the just accepting T at her word, would it appear be the easier option for me, but it hasn't.


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I'm thinking that if it isn't easier and comfortable to not trust, then you're moving on and growing. Leaving the familiar, the comfortable is a good measure of growth.

And when they take care of them then they'll be better able to take care of us!

I'm glad you're feeling good about it

ECHOES