I know there's alot there. The 14yr old lives with her father. He took me to court for custody after I called CPS to investigate further. The court felt that I was trying to hinder their relationship because I called CPS. My ex claimed that I made a false report. There were 3 psych evals 1 from CPS saying yes something happened but not enough proof, 1 from a specialist Phd that I paid to have done saying yes he most definately violated my daughter, 1 from court order stating yes my daughter suffers from pdsd because my ex violated her and a specialist should be called in to further investigate. Also the court thought that if he really did molest my oldest daughter (nonbiological) then what are the chances of him molesting a biological child, and he was ordered to sex abuse counseling and she was ordered to continue counseling. I don't know if he ever went but he stopped her counseling a short time after receiving custody. This man is not wrapped to tight. I divorced him because I found a video tape of me & him having sex...he hid a video camera in his closet. It was 5 years after that that my oldest made a comment that hit me in the stomach.