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Originally Posted by George H.
No offense but that really sounds as if you're spying on him. Accidentally walking in on someone would usually make one think twice about walking into that place and time in future. Finding his ipad "hidden amongst your stuff" is a bit suspicious. The fact that you check his browser history is definitely a sign of prying. Is there more to this than meets the eye?
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No offence taken...... let me explain so you will understand better.
When I walked in on him it was completely by accident and took us both by surprise, as I never know when he is using as he does not have set time he goes to the garage to look at porn......... 8 out of 10 times that I walk out into the garage my husband is not looking at porn, but rather working or putting around in the garage or at his work bench.
I can remember the last two times I walked in on him accidentally......
(1) he had just gotten home from work and went to take the garbage out while I was on the phone with T-mobile about our cell phone and when I got off the phone I was so excited about the good news that I went out into the garage to share it with my husband and I found him standing over washing machine with the I-pad in hand and I knew what was up.
(2) It was a Saturday and our granddaughter was over and we all had been cleaning out the garage then my granddaughter and I took a break for drinks and food..... after about 15 minutes later I went back into the garage to take my husband some food and a drink and there I found him over his work bench looking at porn on that I-pad.
And what's suspicious about finding his I-pad among my stuff....... he put it there when he went to hide it real fast when he heard me coming into the garage and the fleece blankets I use as my animals bedding was the closest thing to him. I found it later that day when I went to change the animals bedding.
I was not spying on his computer........ the last poster asked what ways he takes to make sure I never saw his porn, so I said I think he erased his history, but I am not sure on that. I did suggest to him that he just use the view incognito window when looking at some thing he does not want other to know about.
..... so as you see there is nothing else to be told here, just a wife trying not be be hurt by some thing her husband does (or) have her DID triggered by it.