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Default Feb 13, 2015 at 10:42 AM
 
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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl View Post
Well, yes but that's not the total of it.

With my daddy issues, I wasn't just re-enacting stuff. Some stuff I was, but other stuff I had never experienced in the first place, and wanted/ needed to experience it.

Even the basic fact that you think one needs to experience MORE abuse in order to heal indicates that you need a lot of help. I say it with empathy. I don't recall if you are in therapy but if not I hope you will be.

I do understand WANTing abuse either because that is all u know or because of other unhealthy unconscious needs but no one NEEDS abuse to get better

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