Hi Redbeard, Welcome to PC. I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time. Blue_Bird had the best suggestion; seeing your school counselor or a trusted teacher for support and guidance is probably your best bet. Failing that, you might be able to get help from a local mental health clinic. When I was a teen, my parents were much like yours. I went to a local counseling center without telling my parents. They charged a couple of dollars. I don't know what the laws are like where you live, but that may be an option for you.

You may want to consider not taking any more online tests. Leave the diagnosing to a professional.

There is a forum here for teens that you may want to check out.

I hope life gets better for you.