I'm happy that you have a VD date - it makes me smile.

I have no plans at all related to VD and feel just fine about that. Okay, maybe I'm a little sad that an expensive box of handmade chocolates won't be appearing in my life tomorrow.

I don't feel well enough to deal with dates or a relationship or a person in my house at the moment. Maybe I will again at some time in the future.

I talked to my therapist about this this week, and she laughed when I said that I have a vague sense of concern that I am not at all concerned about not having a relationship now. I feel like it would be normal for me to want one, but I don't right now.