I'm not doing anything either. I've only ever spent Valentine's day one time with a boyfriend but that was two years ago, and we broke up a year ago. I felt anxious earlier in the week because I felt lame for not going on a date or being able to give gifts that special person. I'm not in a relationship either. But after reading an article online about embracing 'the single life', the anxiety eased a bit. I've been focusing a lot on myself, though sometimes it's hard (I'm so used to taking care of others that I don't really give a lot of time to myself - but that's changing).
I don't hate the holiday. I like V day a lot actually but it makes it more fun when you're having fun and celebrating with everyone, too