That might help as far the privacy - never really gave it a thought....

But medication - I am one tough nut to crack there I admit that..Basically ANY noticeable adverse effects and I do not want it. So cause impotence, any additional pain (even just a tinny bit), drowsiness that a cup of coffee won't fix, anything like that and forget it. (I even tossed a few for worsting acid reflux, and another for causing a mild but consistant cough)
SO that is a least in par me, might be something underling there to - but for now THE rules are:

1.) Do NOT brake anything period.
2.) Do NOT make me feel as though I am being watched any closer than if I did not except it. (If you do, that WILL be the end of it regardless of anything.)