ah ****, there was a copying bit that went out of the comment and the first scentance should actually read
'I get the feeling that you're not having an easy time of it right now ak482, I've been there, I used to think (and sometimes still do) that I was always going to be lonely on valentines.'
instead of the very callous looking
'I get the feeling that you'r always going to be lonely on valentines'
I'm so sorry I wrote that, genuine mistake I swear (ooops?)