Sounds like a good forum to discuss this.

Maybe you could identify your father and mother's values first if that is easier.

Then go down the list and start your own list where your values are different than parent's values.

The following articles may offer to shed some light on the process.
Psych Central - Search results for identify my life values

One example
Parents say: You should spend your life in whatever job you get to make a living even if you hate it.

Child: You should do work that is meaningful and an expression of the inner heart.

That is one value difference just as an example.