I told my boss when I was a temp. because I was missing time and was afraid I would lose my job. He has been completely supportive. I've been hired in for several years now, I'm on intermittent FMLA and sometimes med leave. A couple of years ago I told my co-workers, I got sick and tired of the looks and why should I hide from something that I was born with? Surprisingly everyone has been supportive, people have asked questions because they have relatives that have MI. Also, I am damn good at my job and I get one of the highest raises every year. I may miss time, but when I'm there I give it my all and I'm recognized for it. I'm not in my field yet, and I may have ruined my chance by coming out, but I'm changing people's perceptions and helping others. Do I go thru times where I wonder if this might bite me in the ***, sure I do. Time will tell. You did what you thought was right at the time and it might actually have helped you. Like me, you are awesome at your job while also dealing with BP, and to me and others that shows strength and determination. Just my view.
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