That depends on what you have discussed and given permission for ahead of time. And yes, if you have allowed for that kind of communication, and particularly if your spouse knows you are calling and why, information can be communicated, particularly when it is a safety issue. Some spouses actually are quite open with each other about their therapy and have good communication.

I am absolutely certain my husband appreciated my contacting our therapist and his pdoc as it has proven to be life saving more than once. I know the once or twice he has done the same were absolutely necessary and helpful. I'm still here. And we are both in our right minds.

I am not talking about a spouse just calling to get information. It wouldn't be allowed or helpful, but it isn't that black and white. There are emergency situations where that contact may be needed. Each situation is quite different.