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Originally Posted by Mastodon
But that's irrelevant! I asked him to marry me, he agreed, we are married, and it is up to me to make the best of that for myself, as well as for him. Yes, I can see that logically, that is also up to him, but since he doesn't know that I'm not happy, he has no responsibility to do anything about that.
And I have no idea how things could be different anyway, and any change I could imagine would be for the worse. My T refuses to believe me, but it's true, I can't see how anything could change for the better in my relationship. Hence, what I need to do is make myself content with the situation. After all, everybody always tells us that we are the perfect couple.
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We are also told the perfect couple thing. Except we both know we have issues and are committed to work on them together for the most part. Outsiders just have no idea.
In our case, my husband is the one that has made the comment that I'd be better off without him sometimes. Maybe that's true? Who knows. I'm not interested in finding out at the present time. I'd rather work out our issues, which so far seems to have some improvement.