I believe someone has the right to choose their medical treatment or not. I do not believe in choosing for others and trying to inflict care upon them if they do not want it.
I do not view the way you describe as caring. To me, interfering in the way you suggest is unethical and inhumane.

This is all theoretical for me -No one knows the names of the ones I see - my partner does not know who they are and I don't know but the first name of the one she sees.