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I'm sorry that you are hurting. But you can and will heal and pick yourself off the floor eventually. Give yourself time to grieve and heal.

Remember that you DO NOT have to act on every emotion, especially those that include vengefulness, vindictiveness. If you take action on these emotions, you will not like yourself for that at some point in the futue.


A. Why do you want to call his wife and tell her about anything? What is that going to get you that will make your life better? It sounds like mischief making to me.

B. You are 33. I think it's naive to get involved with a married man at this age, but that's me, I'm cynical. You made a mistake. Learn from it. But why do you need to screw up his life, his wife's life, and life for his kids anymore than it is already? I don't get the point of it.