It isn't real life though. Where in real life do you sit down and spout off issues and problems constantly? When do you focus totally on you and no one else? T cares, but it's in a different sort of way, like I care for my clients. (accounting). I want them to get the best interest on their buck, have fool proof programs and plans in place. I want them to have that early retirement. I don't think about that when I'm home with my family though, or when out with the hubs.