dandylin, family can be a blessing or a curse it seems. I am sorry that your sister is like that. I always wished I had a sister. I have a brother who discarded me like a piece of trash. He kicked me out of his life. I know the anguish that can come from people who we think should be close to us but they don't seem to understand love. You can't change your family but you can change your perspective. I will send you a basket of blessings and hugs.