I appreciate your help and would like to thank you fir your time. I'm just not understanding how I could drive to urgent care or the er, fill out paperwork and then start acting like a 6 year old and not either get kicked out or end up admitted to the mental health ward. I mean how do I exactly do that? My temperature is 97.9 and hers is 100.2 how that's possible I really don't understand. All I know is she is sick. She won't eat and doesn't want even to play. I was told that a fever isn't that buy of a deal if it's under 102 so she should just get fluids and sleep it off. The problem is she'll go to sleep for only a few minutes and then I'm here. I was also told that she's the strongest one iinside and the weakest one outside. I don't know if it matters but she's the one in charge. I don't know if that's why I come back when she sleeps. I really don't know how any our this works. I'm still baffled at how it's possible that she's sick and I'm not, but that our temperatures are actually different. I tried it three times. Also, right when I come back I feel nauseated and crappy myself, but it only lasts a few minutes. I'm also wondering say I did want to give her something for her fever would I be able to take it or does she have to and if so am I taking an adult dose, a child dose, or does it go by body weight. Really confused.