What we don't have here is the intimate feel, the long-term feel, for what other peoples' relationships are with their own therapists. We can guess and armchair quarterback other people's therapy situations all day, but without being in the room, without truly knowing both sides of the therapy dynamic, we're all just guessing.

But I don't second guess my own therapy relationship much because I have confidence in my therapist's professionalism, his skill, and have seen the effectiveness of his techniques play out in my own life. All the OP can do is evaluate this situation based on her own experience with this therapist and decide how to take it. Only she knows if her concern is based on concern about the therapist, or if that concern is based more on her own issues (she suggested it could be either; maybe it's a bit of both. Who knows?)