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Old Feb 15, 2015, 12:27 PM
clandestinelament clandestinelament is offline
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Originally Posted by peaceseeker63 View Post
For me, the most imoortant part of reovery is self compassion. We can be so hard on ourselves that we can't see anything good in ourselves or the world. If you can strart forgiving yourself for whatevery it is you hate, and realize it is a choice, your life can change.
I often can't see the difference between self-compassion, self-indulgence, ignorance/avoidance/denial to comfort yourself or others, or even to shrug things under the rug. All very different concepts I suppose, but a mystery to me what they mean usually.

I don't know what you mean by forgiving for this and that. It's true a lot of things in our lives are choices.