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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
Hi there! I'm sorry you feel so hopeless in relation to people. Perhaps, you haven't still been lucky with the people you rushed into.
I can ensure you that there are people who are very worthy.
There was a time when I was a misanthropic person. The problem was me not people. I can't barely accept myself. How were I going to be able to accept others?
I never engaged with others so they couldn't connect with me either.
That is that you call deceit is not other thing as social baseline. It's not that I'm a fan of it but I understand that it's necessary to make fluent and peaceful social interations and why not, as a starting point to deeper interations.
In my opinión, "our glasses" have to do a lot with the way we see reality.
The best is to have glasses with allow us to see the good part of people (bc it exists) and accept the bad part as something we can also have and learn from it.
I'm sure, I don't have so bad experiences as you, so I don't want to be here the smartest, and tell you how beautiful is everything.
I only liked you were able to see the other part, bc is better for you.
A hug! Good luck!
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Some would say trying to view things as always good would be called rose-tinted glasses. Then some wear glasses with just the frames to make themselves look like they are wearing glasses but in fact they aren't at all. They want to have the look of someone that wears glasses though but they are just being deceitful about it. I could see how one has to be positive at first to gain entry to further communications. Though for me I find the further communications to end poorly. Or more like I prefer to keep them at a distance. Not comfortable with it because it all feels wrong and off. A relationship built upon falseness because we would rather try to keep being dishonest rather than true with ourselves.
Though like I said it's hard to really get into anything with people when they are all incredible liars and quick to change who they are to be accepted.
I hate them.