I'm sorry you have become overwhelmed here. Please know that you aren't required to post support to others. You can stay and just post what support you need, or just read and be helped that way too. Others will give support as they are able also.

Learning is a big part of being a member here at PC, imnsho. Each one of us has to evaluate how much we can take and give, and maintain good boundaries. When any of us become overwhelmed, including myself, it doesn't do us any good, collectively or individually, imo. Things can happen to push us, and things will happen... so it's no one's "fault."

We learn this in therapy too, imo. What to share, how much to share and when, when to just sit and receive from the T, and renew.

(((hugs))) Come back soon. You have a place here at PC.

Sky