It's good that you have some people that are supportive-I would focus on them. Those that deny mental illness or try to diagnose others are very difficult to deal with & will probably not change. I weigh very carefully who in my family I am honest with in regards to my issues-I don't need any negativity coming from people that don't understand. For me it's not worth my energy-I've also noticed that those that are so negative & love to give uneducated advice also appear to have more issues than you can shake a stick at & are probably trying to focus on me & my life so they don't have to deal with their own problems. At the end of the day you have to do what feels right & positive for you. Take care