It sounds like what you're saying is you live with people who are disordered, and so people expect you to be like them? I wish I could cook you a meal. I have excess food.

I've known a couple of transgender males (to females). It was very difficult for them, both before and after. It must be tough. I really feel I should have been a man, but after thinking about it, I don't really care about having a body or a social representation, so I just accept the physical bits I have. I realize this is very different from how other people feel. I'm kind of weird. But what I'm saying is I realize this can be a source of many conflicts, and I've seen it in various ways. You are not alone. Do you have other people to talk to, who have been through it?

Yeah, unconditional love, don't get me started. I have so many people who throw the word love around, but where the heck are the actions to back it up? Seems the people who use the word the most are the worst slackers in the action department.

How can we get you some food? Being rounder is very feminine, you know? (My husband got called miss and maam for many years, because he was a little rounder in places. We are oddballs.)