Sometimes when people retire, it isn't an all or nothing thing. I don't know why T couldn't continue to see some clients who are still in a deep attachment stage. You know, not take on any new clients, but keep on with a few that need more help. Not all clients will feel so bad about T not being there. But, of course, I don't know your T's retirement situation. I just wish you two could negotiate that because you are hurting very much and is so discouraging for you.